Aimsworld

finding equations

in algebra the equations:
positive x positive
and
negative x negative
both equal to a positive answer

but
positive x negative = negative

do those equations apply to humans too?

friend #1
i was asking one of my girl friends why she and this guy didn't end up together. i think they're perfect for each other. they both possess the same qualities except that the other would possess a quality stronger than the other. she said that they're too much alike that they repel each other.
i was then reminded of how magnets are. have you ever tried putting together 2 magnets that are both positive? they would repel each other right? if you put together a positive end of a magnet and a negative end of a magnet, they stick to each other like glue. i still think they're perfect for each other. :)

friend #2
i think she's perfect with my other guy friend (whom she's in an undescribable relationship with) they compliment each other, they balance each other out, they look good together but they are still not together "together". i know both sides of the story, i have been asked to give advice to their situation (several times), but i still have yet to find the mathematical equation that would best represent their situation and the equation that can solve their mathematical problem.

my equations:

past : positive * positive = positive!
i used to think that i should always be with someone who i had very similar likes and dislikes with. same talents, hobbies, habits etc

present : i'd go after someone i have some similarities with, someone i can get along with very well, i can relate to, someone i can have engaging conversations with about absolutely anything (abstractions, politics, life, jokes etc)...but not someone who is like a male version of me. i have my world (work, circle of friends, likes and dislikes)...i like my world, i'm comfortable in it...but i always want to learn, see new things, i like to wonder and find answers to questions. i'd go for someone who can fit my keywords plus someone who can open a whole new world to me.
here, i am a musician, would i go for a musician too? i'd go for someone who likes music and has knowledge on music but to be a "musician" like myself, probably not. i'd rather be with someone who has another talent and would leave me awed by his own works. i'm a fan of my friends so ofcourse if i'd be in relationship, i'd want to be the number one fan of my partner too.

hmm...i suddenly remembered the karaoke scene in 'my bestfriends wedding'
i like singing and well, i'd like to think i'm pretty good at it. imagine this, if i went to the karaoke with my partner and he sings well too, and it's just us, it would be sooo corny!
change scene: if i could sing and he could barely sing, i could teach him how to hit the right notes, we'd laugh, and he'll appreciate my singing and i'll appreciate his effort to sing! hahaha! yes, crazy thoughts and my imagination is a bit...umm...yeah but well, you get my point! i hope! :)

lack of sleep = fantastic thoughts! fun!

posted by yma @ 15:45