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advice for the guys

some enlightening thoughts from my 'explaining venus' post

vokaluna's take on explaining venus:
she basically says that
1. assumptions = annoyance and an attempt to make an assumption = frustration
2. concluding that a person is dense is the same way as being perceived as being 'too picky' or 'hard to get.'

her tip : guys should be more blunt because if the lady they are after is anything like us (christina and i), she will always be oblivious- why waste your time?

quoting vokaluna:
one thing people can learn from very powerful women who know what they want is: 1) they know what they want
2) nothing is a game
3) when they are loyal they are exuberantly loyal - you will KNOW when they love you My advice to the men out there trying to wait for signs and read into things is: DON'T. Say it like it is. Be blunt knowing that she would be the same way.

'making over the world one straight guy at a time'
- fab 5 motto

posted by yma @ 05:21